There's no denying that butts are all the rage: From toning your glutes to admiring Kim Kardashian's booty , butt stuff is a hot topic. And the final frontier of this booty-mania? There's no doubt that anal sex still comes with a bit of albeit sexy taboo. Perhaps that's because stepping into the anal arena for the first time can be intimidating, to say the least. What the heck are you supposed to do down there? Is it painful?
As long as you're making sure your partner is having a toe-curling good time too, then you should feel free to maximize your own pleasure—which is why it can be useful to get creative in the bedroom, either by bringing in some toys or getting your rear end involved. But if you're down to do butt stuff, you might discover the wonders of the prostate orgasm , and it's like no penile orgasm you've ever experienced. Prostate orgasms are difficult to describe and a unique experience for every man, which is we thought it would be helpful to ask a few men—who are no strangers to the experience—to describe the action in their own words. It was like feeling someone lighting a fire in my feet and feeling it slowly spread all the way up my body. Slowly moving through my torso and making me shiver. I was in shock!
Never climaxed? It's not as unusual as it may sound. If you just can't orgasm for whatever reason, you're not alone. That's a discrepancy some call the orgasm gap.
It should be fairly common knowledge at least to readers of Men's Health that people with penises can stimulate the pleasure-inducing prostate gland to create earth-shattering orgasms. But did you know that women can have anal-based orgasms, too? Yup, anal orgasms are open to anyone down to explore them. If you and your partner are down to unlock a whole new realm of pleasure, you might both want to do some exploratory butt stuff. The prostate is a walnut-sized gland tucked roughly inches inside the anus, between the bladder and rectum.